Feeling The Love

What advice do I have for you this fine Valentine’s Day?

I'm not going to give you advice on places to be, apps to go on, or people you need to know in order to find love. I'm not going to tell you that you aren't loved.... because most likely you are. I am also not going to force-feed you some crap about how love will find you when you stop looking.

I'm going to tell you the opposite. 

Not too long ago, a friend and I were discussing her plans for life.  She was tired of being single. But instead of going on a rampant dating app mission she planned to become the person she wanted to date. Will she magically morph into a different sex or species? No. Will she instead really start focusing her daily actions being the best version of herself? Will she become attune to her own needs in order to attract someone who is also living their best life? Yes.

So, you. The person reading this in hopes to find direction for love... Look within. Become the person you want to date.

Be in love with your life... Love every minute of your day! Love every action you take. Love every person in your life (even if they are pains in your ass).

If you are surrounded by love... your life will love you back.